ekelsey15 wrote:We also have a 2 yo monster.
ekelsey15 wrote:ha. She would scare Freddy.
sk1grl wrote:"How are your exams going?", they ask. No one in my life really knows what it feels like to take these exams. I try and explain, that I will continue to study and retake. My enthusiasm for my chosen profession is wavering. I want to believe my failures will make me resilient. "I am learning more and more each retake", I say. However, I am tired.
I think my husband ran out of empathy for me. He's tired of the studying. I think he looks at me differently, with each fail. He's not wired to be a cheerleader and I need one badly. He never wanted me to go to Arch school. He resents my student loans. I think he hates NCARB more than I do. I feel indifferent. I have thought about leaving him, leaving him over NCARB doesn't seem like a good endgame. We also have a busy 2 year old. Two weeks ago, my widowed mother admitted she was afraid she had dementia. She always has been kooky, but was demonstrating some more than unusual behavior. So being an only child, I am the only one to help her. Sorry, just need to vent and I feel like I am falling apart. I am trying my best to hold it all together.
So my last exam (BS) went horribly. What elements I passed I got level 1 on in the first exam, I got level 2 on the retake. The only good thing was I got level 1 on the areas I had gotten level 2 on the first time. I feel like these exams are a complete joke, where I potentially pass a section one day and fail it the next. I'll take it again. Just feeling defeated, depressed, and mourning the loss of time away from my family spent studying.
The SD exam, have I jinxed myself by saying that this is supposed to be the easiest exam? The first time I took it, I received a level 1 on the IL and a 3 on the BL. I thought I knew what my issue was, which was a incomplete wall opening. Which had been pointed out to me by Coach in one of my practice posts. So in the test, I had to rearrange my layout to place two spaces "near" each other and I was down to the last minutes and ran out of time as I was making the opening. The second time I took it I had been having a crazy month of client management and was thinking about work the entire time I was in the exam. I know I made mistakes as I was in in the exam, but had gone too far with my parti and thought they would be minor. Apparently, all those mistakes added up and I did worse than before.
I needed to pass the BS and SD before November 3rd, which is the date my first exam pass (SPD) rolling clock ends. I'm mourning this date. Now I have 3 more exams to pass. The end is near, just needed to get this off my chest and move onto my retakes.
little12 wrote:sk1grl
Those unicorns you hear passing them all in 6 months are exactly that---unicorns. The majority of people take awhile and fail at LEAST one time! At least. So hang in there and know that what you're going thru is common.
vrcat25 wrote:little12 wrote:sk1grl
Those unicorns you hear passing them all in 6 months are exactly that---unicorns. The majority of people take awhile and fail at LEAST one time! At least. So hang in there and know that what you're going thru is common.
I knew there was a word for these people and I think you nailed it! "UNICORNS"! That's exactly what they are. Bahaha!
Seriously though, this was a great post Little! Thanks for sticking around. You are a BIG inspiration and I really appreciate all of your encouraging words.
Quigaboo wrote:I did them in 7 months so I guess I'm not a unicorn then.
These tests are more mental than anything. just need to learn how to study for them and how to approach the problem solving. BTW I was convinced I TANKED 2 of the exams and ended up passing. Study hard and be confident!
Quigaboo wrote:vrcat25 wrote:little12 wrote:sk1grl
Those unicorns you hear passing them all in 6 months are exactly that---unicorns. The majority of people take awhile and fail at LEAST one time! At least. So hang in there and know that what you're going thru is common.
I knew there was a word for these people and I think you nailed it! "UNICORNS"! That's exactly what they are. Bahaha!
Seriously though, this was a great post Little! Thanks for sticking around. You are a BIG inspiration and I really appreciate all of your encouraging words.
I did them in 7 months so I guess I'm not a unicorn then.
These tests are more mental than anything. just need to learn how to study for them and how to approach the problem solving. BTW I was convinced I TANKED 2 of the exams and ended up passing. Study hard and be confident!
dyl2016 wrote:Feeling pretty frustrated and discouraged over here as well and needing to vent. I just took PPP for the fourth time yesterday and realized I made a pretty big error on the site zoning vignette after getting home. I believe I may have failed it for the 4th time. I find the MC portion to be simple at this point, but am having these hiccups with the vignette. I read somewhere in this thread each time there's a fail, the next test is harder. Does anyone know if this is true?
I'd never failed an exam prior and have always considered myself to be an academic overachiever- I went to two Ivies. I feel terrible that I'm having so much trouble passing something that would be so straightforward, in theory.
I believe the problems around this test are a product of some mental blockage having to do with fear of failure. That fear is overwhelming for me. PPP was the first ARE I took, and I'd failed that back in 2012. I stopped the process thereafter for two years. I picked up the test again and passed three in a row, then attempted PPP again. Failed the second time around and completely stopped again. I started up again this past October, took it again and failed for the third time.
This process is proving to be more a character building exercise than anything else. The perfectionist in me is freaking out. Not to mention my hugely bruised ego...
dyl2016 wrote:I read somewhere in this thread each time there's a fail, the next test is harder. Does anyone know if this is true?
No, I don't think the test gets harder with each fail.
tmston2 wrote:No, I don't think the test gets harder with each fail.
sk1grl wrote:Here is my update...
I decided after I wrote my original post I would take a break from exams, get through the holidays and try and figure out what is up with my mom. Long story short she was diagnosed with stage 4 Alzheimer's. She was told that she needs to move into assisted living as soon as possible. Again, I'm the only child and I am frantically trying to figure all this out. I am devastated for my mom, for me, for my daughter.
Has anyone had any luck with an extension for taking care of a parent? As I don't think my brain can handle studying/taking exams while I juggle this in addition to my already full plate!
Also, send me some prayers. I might lose my shit.
Has anyone had any luck with an extension for taking care of a parent?
Users browsing this forum: anufibad, awudiponoxav, imoqihtug, itakabmureguw, udekcate and 28 guests